A lover once said "I have lovers and I have friends I may or may not have sex with".
At the time I was happy to be in the 'lover' category as this seemed to me a superior position, with potential for evolvement into something He was demoted in my mind to fuck budfy. There were no complaints!
So what have I learnt from being someones "lover"?
Lots actually, lots and lots and lots, but here is the key thing I learnt; A lover is a lover, AND a boyfriend is a boyfriend, AND a fuck-buddy is a fuck-buddy. They are different creatures so treat them as.
If you want to drive yourself insane and cause yourself copious amounts of unnecessary grief then by all means attempt to secretly turn your "lover" into a "boyfriend". Good luck with.Woman Wants Real Sex Glen Ridge
This is a particularly fabulous strategy for the commitment phobe who is wanting to kid themselves that they are ready for ij. What I mean is, if you are truly ready for a commitment you wouldn't waist your heart space with someone who wasn't. They just wouldn't be romantically interesting to you.Ladies Seeking Real Sex Knobel
It wouldn't matter how funny, or cute or smart or lovely they were, they just wouldn't fit buddyy criteria. The criteria being 'prospective partner must be ready to step into commitment'.Naked Woman In Highland Wisconsin
You can still adore them and appreciate. Just don't confuse the categories!!
Personally, clear delineation has been supremely liberating. I realised that I can't do budry. A lover-ship has an implied continuance that leaves me confused.
Fuck buddy on the other hand allows me to have a dear friend, who I sleep with when inspired and I may be inspired oftenbut because Fuck buddy fuck buddy fuck buddy in is someone you "may or may not have sex with", expectation is taken out of the equation. There is total freedom around it because there is no underlying 'ongoing' relationship to 'take care off'.
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Never-the-less this is still tricky terrain. If there is a part of you thats thinking "ooh maybe once they get to know me they'll fall in love with me", I suggest, don't do it.
If they've told you that they don't want to have a relationship with you, then THEY get fuck-buddy zoned and if you can't authentically do that I'd also recommend staying in reality. When they say "I really like you" what they mean is "I really like you" Full stop, and when you have two hours of the best sex you've ever had and you've eye gazed and shared your deepest secrets with them, well then from that, you may conclude that the two of you Married wants nsa college station some pretty freaking great bedroom chemistry and that there's a beautiful trust opening up between the two of you where you can share intimately, which is different from "I love fucm and I think we Fuck buddy fuck buddy fuck buddy in have babies together".
And if deep down what you want is a committed relationship keep your heart and mind open to meeting your partner. Don't fill up their absence with fantasies about your sexual play mate. Your fuck buddy doesn't get that space in your heart and head.
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